Kimiko Manes is at it again with huge leaps of logic and broad generalizations in her U.S. Culture column. She often chooses interesting cutural differences between Americans and Japanese and then justs goes off base. Consider this:
Japan is a group society, so it is difficult to get out of the group from which one belongs, such as the school or the company community. Indeed, people fear being an outsider. Therefore, Japanese people sometimes have difficulty articulating their own views if they are different from those of others.
In contrast, in an individualistic society, the groups are transient and issue-oriented, so it is also the individual's choice to join or leave the group.
Therefore, North Americans tend not to hesitate to voice their thoughts. If one is pressured uncomfortably, or put in a position not in keeping with one's beliefs, there is always the choice of simply saying "no" and removing oneself from a group and joining another.
In such situations, Japanese seem to instinctively avoid saying "no." In contrast, Americans are proud to be able to say "no." To a country that was established by people who escaped oppression by seeking freedom in the New World, the freedom to say "no" is a keystone of the United States, and still runs strong in the blood of its citizens.
Just because people do have more freedom, however, doesn't mean that anyone can join every group. In a group that works under a leadership, if people are not on the same wavelength they do not get included from the beginning. People who are not social, or bad at marketing themselves are not allowed to join particular groups in the first place.
This is American-style bullying or ijime.
In Japan, no matter what one's intention or philosophy, organizations or groups will automatically include all individuals. Therefore, nobody gets left out.
On the contrary, in the United States, it is inevitable that the exception will occur. Not being included, people who get pushed to the corner of loneliness start to perceive the whole of society as their enemy, and can end up engaging in indiscriminate acts of violence.
In the United States, such acts of violence not only occur in schools, but also in other public locations and workplaces. When people are constantly excluded and depressed enough to commit suicide, they might take out their anger on society through shooting sprees.
A sniper who allegedly had ambitions of assassinating a president is said to have a similar psychological state and is a subject of the CIA's psychological profile analysis. The CIA and FBI are trying to use the know-how accumulated from the profiles of such individuals to prevent further incidents of random violence.
Japanese ijime is different in that someone within a group is excluded or somehow mistreated. Interestingly enough, from the victim's perspective, the perpetrators are identifiable. Japanese bullying ultimately consists of pushing a person out of the group.
So basically she's saying that if you bid to pledge a frat fails, you go out and indsicriminately start killing people. I just read about a 15 old Jaopanese boy who killed a classmate, because she had stopped talking to him at school. Of course the amount of violence in Japan is much less in comparison, but this is a huge generalization. Furthermore, many Japanese choose to turn the violence upon themsleves, there is a disturbing trend of kids who are bullied killing themsleves. furthermore, some people who suffer from "hikiimori" withdraw completely from society-even their families locking themsleves in their rooms with their computers and comics.
Essentially, I agree that in-group behavior is different between the cultures, but I don't think she has used any good examples. I think less extreme examples of the behavior like avoiding direct/opinonated statements, adoptation of the stauts qo to preserve harmony, or lack of constructive criticism might be more illuminating rather than focusing on how American always "go postal" or become Travis Bickles if they don't fit in-they find their group or rebel in positive ways-starting a punk band, playing video games, or whatever. There's certainly more pressure to conform in Japanese society, but people have found nonviolent ways to rebel, too; by becoming "freeters" (contract part-time workers), dressing up in Gothic clothing styles, or moving away to another country to study a foreign language.
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